I’ve never been to that mega-conference called Catalyst, missed meeting Brad Lomenick at Q NYC (I think that’s where our paths crossed), and didn’t catch them on their road trip. I’m not able to go cross country this year either.
Frankly, it’s overwhelming to me. The past 2 weeks have been humbling to me, and I’ve had to slow down. And, Craig Groeschel spoke to this powerfully last Sunday. Towards the end of my travel season, some circumstances have indicated to me that I gotta pace myself better and add margin. No need to worry about me — my health is fine.
So, what I’m learning is to not push myself so hard, trying to be frenetically driven, always looking for ways to be more productive, more excellence. It strikes me as being more workaholic. I’m not saying that we shouldn’t do our best, or that we shouldn’t grow and improve ourselves. Not to say we shouldn’t achieve and do great things. What I am saying is there’s more to being human and healthy and sanity.
Spending the day at ChurchTechCamp; see the live streaming video, chat room, live tweets, and live blogging >>
Here’s a quick video scanning the #churchtechcamp audience
This afternoon about 1:30ish (Pacific) I’ll kick off a discussion / conversation about whether blogging still matters, with these articles as a starting point:
- State of the Blogosphere 2008 (intro, parts 1, 2, 3, 4, 5)
- In Web World of 24/7 Stress, Writers Blog Till They Drop – New York Times (April 2008)
- Death by blogging – Slate
- Death by Blogging? – The Daily Dish / Andrew Sullivan
- The Death of Blogs – Christianity Today (September 2007)
Words mean things; they have a lexical definition. But that’s not all. There’s more! Words carry emotions based on one’s experience and context, both nature and nurture (personality bent and family upbringing, respectively.) And effective communication is all about finding the words that transmit the sender’s (speaker or author) ideas to the receiver (audience or reader).
Here’s a list of words that don’t connect with me. These trigger words are burdening, off-putting, unappealing, turn me off. I translate these trigger words into better words that better connect and/or motivate me, so I don’t feel weighed down or repelled. Don’t want to be wordy or verbose, so I’ll just list them [format= trigger word vs. better word]:
- discipline vs. habits
- obey/ obedience vs. do the right thing
- routine vs. rhythm
- challenge vs. adventure or rally
- decision vs. choice
- plan vs. choosing the future
- goals vs. milestones
- accountability vs. support or reinforcement
- performance – haven’t found a better word for this yet; I do work in a high quality kind of way, but the performance evaluation part gives me the willies
I could write paragraphs ad nauseum on why those trigger words don’t work for me. But, happy to entertain them in the comment thread (so I don’t clutter my blog post with extraneous tirades and rabbit trails.) And, this list is probably great fodder for a psychiatrist to analyze my psyche with.
These are kind of the word-choice equivalent of pet peeves. I’m sure you have some words that set you off too.